Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Selfish Gesture

Guys what a great will power can't do is possible by sitting idle at home when you are jobless. As I had applied for an extension from IBM for my joining and my other interview dates are also not finalized, so basically I am jobless at present with no work to do..:P So after being fed up with a vellaholic life(yeah I came up with that word:) ) I thought of writing down something.
The character of 'Howard Roark' of 'The Fountain Head' was somewhere at the back of my mind and with that frame of mind set I saw the title track of 'Chak De' on T.V today. I just thought of SRK's character in that (when you are sitting idle, you tend to think over anything and everything:)..) and came up with my own point of view.

So I thought...'What the hell!!!'. When all the critics express their likes and dislikes over any possible thing then why should I leave any stones untouched and so here I go:

‘Chak De India’ presented Shahrukh Khan as an idealist Indian but was he able to keep up with it throughout the movie? I am sure everyone will say ‘Yes’ but I don’t feel so. Everyone asks WHY? Such a flawless performance is under scrutiny for no reason. A performance that bolstered the topic that has always been left out is being under scrutiny. This is only to make an issue out of nothing only to get fame.

Now let me tell you why I feel so. It is very hard to understand human psychology but whatever little I construe gives me an idea that whenever you try to show something or impart your image on others, it is being selfish. I never say that a vindictive attitude is a selfish one but yes trying to form or modify your image is being selfish. As long as you know you are right, you need not show it to others that what you did and why you did that so as to make them feel good about it.

Let me explain my point with an apt example. If I am a selfless individual, I would not care what others think about me. I will only do whatever vocation or avocation gives me happiness. I am happy in doing whatever I like and not in making others feel or believe in my notions. But if I try to form or modify my image in the world’s eyes than the only reason for this is that I want myself to be liked or I want others to feel good about me. This will make me feel good and is thus a selfish motive.

Now coming back to SRK’s role in ‘Chak De India’, it was a selfish motive in my opinion because whatever others feel or believe, if SRK had the belief in himself that what he had done was right and made him happy then there was no point proving his ideas and vindicating his notions to make others feel positive about him. If you do what makes you happy then there is no need to make your relative or your neighbors or the people in your colony feel good about it.

Sunday, July 11, 2010

WOW!!! waking up from a long long sleep, here I try to restart my writing. A lot of things have changed since the last time(actually d 1st and last time:)..) I posted something on my blog. Back then I was just a student of 3rd year with great ambitions and felt that I was on my way of achieving but now I have the stark reality at my hands. Its not that I am unhappy with what I have but I must admit a bit unsatisfied though.
I had thought of making it big at MBA but did managed to perform moderately well scoring 97 percentile and was able to convert for IMT ghaziabbad but have decided to opt out of it. This was not the easiest of decisions to make but I still believe I could make something bigger happen for myself, so hoping to relive that dream of mine..:)
Well currently I have my plans to move on with a job for a year or so and then again back to MBA. Back with a bang!!!:)
I always felt my knowledge database lacked somewhere or in better terms I was not able to express it in the best possible way. So after a lot of mind boggling I came to a thought that why not try out blogging. After all you people are the best critics for me and could help me achieve what I aim for. So hoping from all you people to religiously follow it and help me improve:).
With this great thought I restart my 2nd innings at blogging and am sure this is gonna be a lot helpful for me as well as for you people too...:)